Molloy DSG Professional Digest

A man of masculinity is grounded in strength, character, and integrity; he cannot fear a man who is abusive toward women and weaker individuals because such behavior is fundamentally rooted in cowardice and insecurity. Masculinity, in its healthy form, embodies qualities like courage, responsibility, and the instinct to protect those who are vulnerable, not dominate them. A man who demonstrates the ability to inflict physical and emotional hard toward any woman or weaker person betrays these principles, exposing himself not as powerful but as weak—a person driven by unresolved fears, anger, or a need to control someone physically weaker to mask his inadequacies.

For a masculine man, fear is reserved for worthy adversaries or genuine threats, for the war mind; this attention is not reserved for individuals who lash out at those who cannot fight back with a fair shot. Instead of fear of the abuser, such a man feels disdain, recognizing that abusive behavior is a desperate attempt to reclaim a sense of control over life. The abuser, in contrast, is trapped by the inability to address his own emotional turmoil and insecurity in healthy ways, resorting to violence because he lacks the courage to confront his real challenges—whether internal or external. To a man rooted in authentic masculinity, the abuser man's behaviors cannot be received as intimidating over contemptible.

A man with a strong sense of identity understands that there is no honor in inflicting pain on others, especially on those who are defenseless. Abusing the weaker in our socieity reflects a complete failure of self-discipline and personal accountability—qualities that masculine men value and live by. Such behaviors are not seen as powerful but as fragile; it becomes obvious the individual is incapable of channeling frustrations in productive or honorable ways. This recognition by the masculine man strips away any sense of fear, because he knows that real strength lies in control, restraint, and the ability to uplift, not in tearing others down.

The masculine man sees fear at its core—the abuser is afraid of losing control, afraid of facing himself, afraid of being vulnerable in healthy relationships; this understanding makes it impossible for a man of integrity to fear an abuser. Instead he naturally feels compelled to stand up to such behavior, knowing that real courage involves defending those who cannot defend themselves, not exploiting those who are weaker. A masculine man is secure in his strength and values and is immune to such petty demonstrations of power and views; he sees the abuser as a hollow figure, incapable of earning respect or commanding fear.